John Benjamin Wender

Sleazy cheater, sociopathic narcissist, pathological liar, misogynist, drug and alcohol abuser.

Collects women, uses women, enjoys charming them and winning them over but it’s all part of his twisted game.

His parents were alcoholics, his whole family is riddled with addiction. His oldest brother is a meth addict, his other brother died from contracting viral hepatitis from a hypodermic needle (heroin) and John abused drugs and alcohol for over a decade with a young child at home.

John is a chronic manipulator and you can not believe a word he will tell you.
 Watch for the stories to change details; because each time they will. He finds it hard to keep track of his lies.


One comment on “John Benjamin Wender

  1. copyk says:

    John Wender frequently engages in illicit sex play such as BDSM and objectification. He enjoys degrading women, violence towards women sexually not limited to but including medical play, daddy/daughter scenarios, fisting, teacher/student scenarios, bondage, over the knee, rope play, dominance, breast torture, water sports and scat, rape play, pony play, forced orgasm, spanking, whipping, paddling and flogging, gagging, strap-on play, wax play and auto-erotic asphyxia and strangulation. John Wender enjoys age play and borderline pedophilia. He enjoys his sub to be collared and engages in strappado bondage.

    He enjoys pleasure derived from causing pain and degradation to his subject. John Wender specifically enjoys the humiliation of a woman sexually and will frequently force himself on her in a violent and controlling way.
    He enjoys voyeurism and has been known to be involved in the NYC sex scene/clubs/parties both as a participant and a voyeur.

    He frequents sites such as,,,,, and He uses these sites to find willing subjects for his abuse.
    In September 2012 he subscribed to several YouTube channels demonstrating knot tying and rope play for BDSM activities.

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